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Assalam o Alaikum.
aap ka kia khayaal hai . ke aik mard aurat par hath kion uthaata hai.?
agar aisa hai ..toh ye family issue nahi hai..ye social issue hai..jis ka nafsiyaati tajziyaa zaroor hona chahiye..
I think wo mard jo buzdil hota hy wo he auort per hath utha'ta hy
ye phr jo aourat jahil hoti hy aur apni ahmqana baton ki waja sy mard ko hath uthany py majbor kr deti hy
nice thread
ji ye waja bhi bilkul munaaisb waja hai.. magar ye baat bhi hai mere khayaal se .keh har wo insan , jis ke dil main kisi bhi qisam ki ehsaas-e-kamtari hoti hai, wo apne kamtari ke ehsaas ko khud ki satisfaction ke liye mukhtalif tarha ke acts se satisfy karta hai. aurat par hath uthaana bhi dar asal mard ki ehsaas-e-kamtari ko zaahir karti hai. ke wo khud ko aurat se ziaada soojh samajh waala, aur taqat war zaahir karna chahta hai, is unwaan ke hawaale se laa taadaad haqaaiq hain.jo IN SHA ALLAH time to time ham yahan discuss karainge. pehli bat ye hi hai keh. insan jo khud ko kamtar samjhe apni bv ke mqable main, wo hath zaroor uthaata hai apni bv par.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ria
aur badzubaan aurat hamesha aik mard ko apni badzubaani se uksaati hai ke mard uspar hath uthaye.
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Originally Posted by CaLmInG MeLoDy
Jee haan sahe kaha aap ny, ehsaase kamtari ko khtm krny k liye ehsaas e bartari ka shikar ho jaty haien
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Originally Posted by CaLmInG MeLoDy
wa alaikum aslam !
This is the worse act.......... specially agar family mai baap aisa rwayya apnata hai to wo kbi apni oulad se izzat nhi krwa skta...
Jesa k hadees e mubarak ka mafhoom hai aurat pasli ki tra hai agar ise seedha krne ki koshish kro ge to toot jaye gi
aurat ko smjana boht asan hai ap piyar or ache treeqy se apni koi b baat manwa skte hain ye female pscycy hai
agar ap aik seedhi si sahi baat b bad ikhlaqi se krte hain to yaqeenan us k ehsasat b majro hon ge or is se mard k izzat o waqar mai koi izafa hrgiz nhi hota
lehaza aisa fael sirf wohi mard kr skte hain jin k pass ye salahiyat nhi k wo aurat ko piyar se smja skain.....
Or rahi baat extreme condition ki k agar aurat sahi baat b piyar se smjany k bawjood nhi man rahi tb osy ghalti se rokne k liye aisa na gazeer ho to kia ja skta hai
magar tashaddud ki sorat main hrgiz nhi.... apka maqsad islah hona chahiye inteqam ya gussa nhi !!
Bilkul sahi kaha ap ne aroosa. mard ka aurat par hath uthaane ka maqsad islaah hona chaahiye. naa ke ghussa ya intiqaam.aur aisa bhi ba haalat-e-majboori hi ho sakta hai.aik acha point raise karne par shukria.Quote:
Originally Posted by Arosa Hya
Assalam o Alaikum.Orat pe Hath othana Mukamal jahalat e azeem hai or kamzoor mard He orat pe hath othaya karte hain.Orat pe hath othane pe islam mai sakhti se mana hai par Orat ki sar kashi ko dekhte howe makhsoos andaz mai makhsoos hiso pe makhsoos Andaaz ki maar ka hukam milta hai os k baad bhi baat nahe banti to Orat ko Khud se or khud ko orat se hamesha k liye juda kar dena behtar hai.
aur ye hi saza kaafi hia.Quote:
Originally Posted by singer_zuhaib
Me @Arosa Hya ki Baat se agree karti hun
Or Mera point of view ye hai
K wo Mard b essa krty hain
Jo Aurat ki Izzzat Karna Nae Janty
Mard aurat py hath tb uthata hy jb wo guilty hora hy kc chez k leye...r apne galti manany k bejai wo galti ka aehsas delany wali apni bivi ko marta hy...
R mjhy aesay mardun sy nafrat hy chahy wo mera apna husband he q na ho..
Aurat ko bdzubani py uksany wala bhe mard he hota hy wrna kc aurat ko shok nh hota apny shohar sy mar khanay ka ya apna mazak bnwany ka.....!!!!
ap bilkul sahi keh rahi hain mrs Aqib. Magar maar khate rehna kahan ka insaf haiQuote:
Originally Posted by Mrs.Aqib
Aurat ko baaizat tareeqe se mard k narm lehje wale mood main. Us se uski ghalti ka iqraar karwaane ki koshish karni chahiye. Insan apni ghalti manne lag jaye. Toh ghaltiyan kam karta hai.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mrs.Aqib
Jo mard apni orat pay bilawaja shak karta hai usy marta hai or roob jharta hai usy mard ko cahiya k churiyan pehn k ghar beth jay mard mard say muqabla karta hai kamzor orat say nahi orat pay mardangi dekhnay waly mard begerat khandan say hotay hain
مہمان ممبر یہ میاں اور بیوی کا معاملہ ہے اسمیں خاندان کو الزام دینا یا بے غیرت کہنا کسی طور پر بھی درست نہیں۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔Quote:
Originally Posted by Atif khan
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kisi b sorat me mard ko oort pr haath naioyhana chahyay
Q k ese wo usy bagi kr dy ga.
Koi q oorat jb usy acha input mily to acha he out put dy gi but agr mard usky status or condition or mental condition ko nai smjhy ga usy secure feeling nai dy ga oor us pe apna trust develop nai kry ga to wo her tra se bura e kry gi.oor ghr ka Skon qaim nai rahy ga.mrd head of family bn k roob dikhany ki bjaay family ko akhta kry
mera sawal ye ha k agr orat mard ko majboOr krdy hath uthany pr to kia phr b ijazat nh h hath uthany ki...k orat koi asa km kry jo usk husband kp ma pasand ho or wo br br mana krny k bd b na many to asy m mard kia kary.
Walekumassalam ruby siso nice topic
Sab Me batein sun par kafi real facts thoughts maloom huwe...
Pata nahi aj kal itni jahalat q barh gayi hai logo mein
Han sahi. Pata nahi aisa q hai k mard apni ghalti maan lene ki bajaye ulta aur dabao daalne lagta hai bv pe. Ye nafsiyaati masla haiQuote:
Originally Posted by Mrs.Aqib
Hmmmmm. Bas kisi tor mard ko zeb nahi deta hath uthana.Quote:
Originally Posted by Atif khan
Bilkul. Apne sahi kaha. Normal halaat main trust develop ho jaye toh zindagi pur sakon ho jati hai.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hays ali
Bohot se kam aise bhi honge jo shohar bv ki pasand k baghair karta hoga. Kia aurat bhi maare apne shohar ko? Maar peet ki nobaa sirf ikhlaaqyàt se girne ke baad hi aani chahiye. Kirdar se girne k baad. Warna apne hum safar se faasla hi kafi hai.Quote:
Originally Posted by Unregistered
Aliza baat jahalat ki nahi hai. Asal main logon main khud sari. Main.. aur badla lene ki talab barh gi hai. Ghussa hote hi aape se bahar.lakin wo insan hi kia jo apne nafs pe qaaboo na pa saka.Quote:
Originally Posted by Aliza
Sach kaha ruby siso...gussa aisi Cheez hai jab Insaan par hawi hojaye to usey na kuch pichla had rehta hai aur na hi sahi galatQuote:
Originally Posted by CaLmInG MeLoDy
Mery husband mujhy bht marty hain or choti choti bat per foran hath utha lety hain mai bhot pareshan hogai hun mai alag bhi nahe hoskti hun ku k mery father nahi hain meri ammi hain akeli please kuch esa btaein kay ye sb theek hojaye
Assalam o alaikum sisQuote:
Originally Posted by Sal
Allah hidayat se apke shauhar ko... in sha Allah ameen ya rab ul Aalameen
Wo q karte hai aisa.. unhe gussa Kis baat par ata hai?
Apke shauhar k ghar me unke ammi Abu nahi hai? Aur agar hai to apke shauhar k ye sulooq par wo Kya karte hai?